I am struggling with keeping our worlds overlapping. Thank you for this. And by joining I mean become just as fanatic in it as she is All her life she's been taught that she needs to be married in a Mormon temple Wife left when I came out If her family are all Traditional Believing Mormons, they will try to convert you. I run a local nonprofit and had a demanding job, but it can never be as difficult or challenging as his job. Break up with her. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. Wonderful memories made for both of us. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. She still has another year of residency but I am hoping she chooses a specialty that is not as demanding on her time. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions.
It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. Had to switch to more flexible job. Made many attempts to do things together, but always get excuses of being tired or not interested. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. But I loved this girl more than anything in life. It just gets so lonely you invariably commission yourself a single parent. I mean, there was no way it could be worse than intern year. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons.
But i am struggling to cope with him and his hectic schedule. Would she want you to attend church with her. Only the racist comments about why it was enacted have been disavowed. You can have all the time in the world and not be committed. Marriage is hard, period. He's a devoted father and every ounce of free time goes to his kids. We have 3 children and have now been married 17 years I have been a single mother for yearsthere life is the hospital. Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. I cried when I showed the end of a rescue reenactment in my class last week. Righteous love does conquer all but in some cases it takes a lot longer than we are willing to wait.
You need to repent and change. I do feel some of the pressure lifting off me in that I can start doing things for myself. Until then I didn't have much of a problem with his lifestyle because I still had my freedom and could focus as much as I wanted on a career. I'm not marrying to be a single, working mom with money. Did he ever buy me anything other than a coffee or a dinner.