You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one. I could never do it. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. Trust Building Exercises for Couples. You can be very committed to someone but only be able to fit them in the limited free time you have. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa. Because service is important in the Mormon faith, she may be interested in doing something that will help others, like helping someone clean their yard. Move on, but after thanksgiving.
I can't complain about the first 24yrs. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. I dated non mormon men. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. If you are a Catholic girl dating a Mormon guy, then it may not be an issue with his parents. She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth. Since a very young age, these girls have gazed at handsome paintings of Jesus and prophets, and learned to respect men who have spiritual confidence in their eyes. It would behoove you in this situation to act like a kid yourself. But I wish he would call or text me or maybe make a sweet gesture every once in awhile. She might not realize how important it is to compromise.
I actually had one of my friends say to me, " why are you worried about what he is doing when you aren't there he spends hundreds of dollars on you when you are there who cares that he hasn't texted you".
Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. RB Ruth Barb May I'm an active Mormon girl.