I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions. My husband and I have a much closer relationship than ever before and I just hope that another blue eyed nurse doesn't come along to distract him. She said we couldn't watch it because the lady who produced the doc was formerly a professor at BYU but has since left the church, so she wouldn't have anything good to say. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. It has been closed. During "Netflix and chill" the other night, I noticed there was a documentary about mormons. He says he has put-in a lot of his life into his profession and his career is very important to him. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share.
Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl. But what if your girlfriend is Mormon, but not active in the Church.
She still has another year of residency but I am hoping she chooses a specialty that is not as demanding on her time. Cool Nicknames for Guys. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew.
You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. Just let things keep going. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well. Also, we haven't practiced polygamy for over years. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male. Do you want to be married in the temple. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive. When we are together it is amazing he obviously has work that he takes care of when I am there but for the most part he tries his best to leave work at the office. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider.
I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. My husband started a solo practice and the last few years have been very difficult on our marriage- financially as well as personally. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice. What are the strategies for not taking the absence personally I mentioned above that I'm cognizant of my SO's constraints, but it's definitely hard I have been married to an Interventional Radiologist 30 yrs. The relationship never went anywhere but was always happy to help and he was very grateful. Is it wrong that I feel guilty?. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. Ok, so what concerns do you have about the biggest difference of allвwhen your child brings home a potential mate of a completely different gender.
I just happened upon your blog I'm a doctor's wife as well - rural family medicine and I just wanted to agree with you that "have no expectations" is awesome advice. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling.
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