We are at odds about this constantly. I went to BYU. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. And you will be shocked. Learn all you can. My spouse really is the most important and I would be nothing without them. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home. To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. I don't know if living vicariously through him will be enough.
I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. Make sure you are According to the teachings of the Church, Mormon youth should not date before the age of This is more of a custom than a hard rule, but it is a good standard to follow, as you will probably not be mature enough to effectively handle that kind of personal relationship before then. Most of all it's lonely. I am very active with my work, social life, and activities and independent. I am married to a DH and what helps me the most is knowing my whole life revolves around him and medicine always come first. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse. That's my two cents.
If you can't deliver it in person, put in an envelope and mail it to me. They will teach the boys that masturbation is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt. I think a lot of what you say here really rings true, especially the part about the Date Night. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. Their son grew up to become a temple president. Break up with her. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. How convenient for him.
It interrupts meals, sleep, shopping trips, conversations, romantic time, and even fights. So, I can only imagine the stories you hear.
I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy.