It's the extra socializing, hanging out with residents, stopping by the hospital to visit his best friend. When my nomo husband does go to church we discuss the talks. The first week home he is already covering someone elses cases I struggle with where to draw the line Again we have never had coverage when we needed it. Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Most of the doctors I know are either way older and in private practices where they can set their schedules a bit OR they're my age and still going crazy with residency hours. The decisions we have made in how to raise our kids have been our decisions alone.
I love his way of loving me,his compassion towards our relationship,his loyalty ,reason for mine marrying him not for his paycheck but I guess I also need a companion,a life partner,someone who will be beside me when ill be needing him the most.
Think about what you want in a relationship. I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. He did call frequently, so I don't think its a good sign that your doctor guy isn't calling. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. I am so in need of a support group. Too many disappointments, sick nights without your husbands, his absence during family gatherings, my usual OBGYN checkup without him, even simple things of hugging and spending quality time is always remote. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to.
People respect him more and belittle him less He seems just a little bit happier - which makes a difference at home. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. We are alone for many months at a time. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. Twitter did not respond. I suggest to run as it will not get better. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. But now it also comes out that he resents my past negativity and lack of appreciation for his hard work I didn't want to talk about my issues with him because, as many of you have said, my little problems couldn't compete with what he was dealing with at work. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park.
Is he willing to, nay, interested. If you have dated a doctor or other abnormally busy person or are in the medical profession yourself that would be particularly helpful, but I'll gladly take any words of wisdom. Good luck to you and your boyfriend.