Married men should not reach out to vulnerable women who buy their story of being lonely bc they are married to a woman who should have been a librarian. Things have worked out pretty well with us so far. They can't seem to deal with it, and shouldn't have to. As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. I can honestly relate to all the stories i read from your blog. Should I just end it if the loneliness bothers me already. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. Here's my advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him.
Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. I couldn't stop thinking about it all day after reading it. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc. We all know that. You got some good advice from the other posters on how to maintain contact. Sexuality is the enemy of romance, and romance is amazing. I would never give up on him because he got nobody else. I'm encouraged that this blog gives many of you hope. My husband is on call today, gone the entire weekend. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking.
It's been really helpful already. We talked about getting married early in our relationship since we had known each other forever. The first vision is something she taught endlessly as a missionary - same with the Book of Mormon translation. I love him more than life, He says the hours will get better after residency I really hope so. This is right for me and for us. Within a cultural group marriage is hard. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. Residents work an insane amount of hours. She may be beautiful, friendly, and sincere.
And don't get hung up on all the "lofty doc" stuff. I am a very independent person socially so I often do not think to call people just because I am fine doing things myself. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. Dating a mormon girl. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in.